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| Love and Marraige, they go together like a horse and Carriage... |
[03 Jan 2011|10:30pm] |
I have an amazing husband. I still smile a little more every time I get to say that, yes Steven is my husband we got married on December 17 of last year and it was perfect. We had a small ceremony at a little chapel in Vermont. There was snow and candle light and it was perfect. The main guest at the wedding were Steven's parents and siblings. However, we had a large reception back at the hotel with lots of friends and family and I was pleasantly surprised that my parents actually showed up at the reception for a little while. After all the partying me and Steven decided to stay in Vermont and spend our honeymoon there and it was wonderful.
And I really could write a whole book about how amazing married life is, but I know you guys really don't want that...so I shall just go and gust to Steven some more.
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| Spider's snakes and lizard's heads...if I taddle tell I'll die til I'm dead. |
[13 Dec 2010|11:05pm] |
Family...You ever wonder what that word really means? Probably not, but with everything going on in my life lately I started to think about it more and more. So, being the educated man that I am I pulled out the trusty old dictionary. Okay, well actually I went online to dictionary.com and did it that way and this is what I got...
fam·i·ly
1.
a. a basic social unit consisting of parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not: the traditional family.
b. a social unit consisting of one or more adults together with the children they care for.
2. the children of one person or one couple collectively
3. the spouse and children of one person: We're taking the family on vacation next week.
4. any group of persons closely related by blood, as parents, children, uncles, aunts, and cousins: to marry into a socially prominent family.
5. all those persons considered as descendants of a common progenitor
6. approved lineage, esp. noble, titled, famous, or wealthy ancestry: young men of family.
7. a group of persons who form a household under one head, including parents, children, and servants.
8. the staff, or body of assistants, of an official.
9. a group of related things or people.
10. a group of people who are generally not blood relations but who share common attitudes, interests, or goals and, frequently, live together.
I don't really care for any of those definitions actually. I think the last one is closer to what I am looking for, but still not exactly what I want....not one of these definitions talks about love.
When I think back on my own childhood and my family growing up love was kind of absent. Now as an adult I don't doubt my parents loved me, nor do I doubt they love me now. My parents came from the whole tradition of money, wealth, and power are expressions of love. For example, I can remember asking my father to take me camping once and he informed me that he couldn't because he had meetings to go to and stuff. He smiled and patted my head and told me that camping wasn't going to get me into the finest universities, but the money from his business would. I was seven...what did I care about college?
I don't want to spend this update ripping on my parents because they really have done so much for me, but at times I just wish I could get them to see that I just need them to show interest in my life once in a while. It's hard for me to get excited and want to tell my parents about the good news in my life, and on the other hand, I also have a hard time telling them the bad news and asking for help. Let me go on record right now and say that I realize no one is perfect and all families have faults of one kind or another, but if your parents are supportive of you...maybe you should tell them thanks and remember to talk to them in the good times and bad. Life is a hard thing to live on your own with out love and support of someone, so with this holiday season remember to spend some time with your family...no matter how you define them.
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[10 Dec 2010|01:42am] |
I am getting married next weekend! I am so excited. I am nervous. I'm happy. I'm scared. It's amazing. Steven is the love of my life and marriage or not I couldn't imagine not being with him.
You know the whole, 'you had me at hello?' well Steven had me at, 'I'm gay.' The moment Steven became willing to admit to the world that he was gay I was able to see just how much he loved me and I knew that he was the man of my dreams. Nothing could have surprised me more than hearing him confess that to everyone. I have to admit, everyday I am blown away by some sweet little that Steven does. I am lucky to have such a caring, thoughtful, and loving man like him in my life. He has given so much for me. Going into retirement so that he could spend more time with me and stuff...I mean come on...Who does that anymore? My babyboy that's who!
Anyway, I just wanna say, Steven...I love you.
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[06 Oct 2010|12:47pm] |
October marks the start of fall for me and I think it's because of Halloween and the leaves changing colors. Which as a side note, that is the one thing I really miss about the east coast, I miss my new England falls.
Anyway, I digress, with the start of fall I start to grow my beard back. I like to have a beard in the winter so I start to grow it in now and oh my gosh does it itch. Never before did I really notice this and all I can figure is I was working more then so it was all just flying under my radar so to speak. However today, yeah today it did not and I have been itchy and I really think our dog thinks I have fleas cause he keeps giving me these looks every time I scratch...which I can just add to the list of reason why I think he really hates me and sigh...it's already been a long day.
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| Something you need to know about me... |
[23 Jul 2010|04:44am] |
I hate Bruce Campbell.
I know, I know, you don't understand this crazy hatred, but please let me explain. My boyfriend is obsessed...I mean the probably-has-a-hidden-shrine kinda obsessed with the man. I use to like a few of his films, but I wouldn't call any a cinematographic masterpiece!
Steven on the other hand would, yeah Steven can't get enough of those movies, or Bubba Hotep which is pure stupidity. I mean we even have a dog named Bruce; what the hell is that all about? Do you know how much I hate the dog, or how much the dog hates me. I kid you not I think it plots against me.
Anyway, the point of this entry was not to bitch about my crazy boyfriend, but I swear every time he starts to put in Bubba Hotep I just loose it a little. Besides, as much as I hate Bruce, I love Steven. Steven is, well simply put, amazing.
I wont say that our relationship has always been easy. But, I think we've proven time and again that love is really what matters, and that...that is what you really need to know about me.
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